Season 4 - Episode #2: Why We're Addicted To The Wrong People

Welcome back to a brand new season of Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.

In this week’s episode, we dive deep into a relationship pattern so many people confuse for “chemistry,” when what we’re actually feeling is the body’s addiction to chaos.

This episode is your guided tour through emotional intensity: why it feels like love and how to break the trauma loops that keep you chasing relationships that burn hot, crash hard and leave you feeling empty.

In This Episode, We Cover:

- The Myth of “Chemistry”
- The Science Behind the Addiction
- Childhood Roots of Chaos Based Attraction
- The Trauma Loop Explained
- How to Break the Pattern
- Why Healthy Love Feels “Boring” at First

Key Takeaways

- You’re not “crazy” for craving intensity, you’re wired for it.
- Addiction in relationships is a nervous system response, not a character flaw.
- Calm love isn’t boring; it’s stable and your body can learn to desire it.
- Healing begins the moment you see your patterns clearly and choose differently.
- You can break the cycle and rewire your emotional chemistry.

Work With Dr. Lurve

Ready to heal your patterns and experience a new kind of love? You can:

- Join a retreat in Bali
- Attend a workshop in Australia
- Start one of Dr. Lurve’s online programs
- Apply for 1:1 coaching
- Connect with the team for support

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See you next time on Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.