Module 4
Lesson #2 The Positivity Impact
It is important to create a strong positive emotional connection. When you incorporate positivity in your relationship it creates a positive emotional connection. Creating special moments of connection and laughter will have him thinking good thoughts about you when you’re apart. When you create this response in the man it ignites a powerful attraction.
You can create these moments in all relationships, it’s learning to create associations to things that evoke good memories. For example, if you have fun dancing and laughing to a song on the radio with your partner, every time he hears the song, he thinks of you in a positive way and it literally brings a smile to his face.
Creating special emotional experiences will have him thinking about you, visualise your face and instantly feel great. He will pair that good feeling with how he feels to be around you, consequently having him crave your company!
Be authentically who you are and naturally create as many positive emotional associations as possible. Men find a woman attractive when she is in touch with her feelings; a woman who is able to ask for what she wants and needs is sexy. When you are able to express what you need to a man then he clearly knows what a you need, putting the guessing game to rest.
What does that mean? It means he is now in a position to make you happy. That is exactly what he wants to be able to do, remember making you happy will make him happy!
Women are the expert “hinters”! Learning how to express your emotions, what you want and need in a healthy way creates happy relationship. It is important to be direct so the man knows what you want. Generally, women communicate less directly than men and men often have no idea of what hints you’re trying to give him – men do not speak hint!